This post originally ranĀ September 6, 2010. Note: this is an imaginary Christian couple, assembled as a composite from various counseling situations. Dear Tony, Thanks for the email and the follow-up phone call. I am glad you decided to get help with this, and I am glad that you and Suzanne are talking about it. A …
Their Blood Sacrament
This post originally ran September 26, 2018. Of course everyone recognizes that the battle over the nomination of Brett Kavanaugh is a battleāall understand that there is a fight going on. And more than a few understand that the battle is over Roe. But this understanding is greater on the side of the secularists, their …
An Open Letter to the Vice-President of the United States
This post originally ran February 13, 2017. Mr. Vice-President, I am writing you as one who has appreciated your work, and as one who has been most grateful for your presence and influence in the new administration. Your impact has not gone unnoticed, and we thank God for you. I am extraordinarily mindful of what …
7 Reasons Young Men Should Marry Before Their 23rd Birthday
This post originally ranĀ April 11, 2016. I want to argue that the war on marriage has many fronts. And while evangelical Christians have done a decent job in resisting some of the more outlandish attacks (e.g. Obergefell), in other areas we have tended to go along with the secular flow completely. One area where acquiescence …
Unleashing Your Inner Fundamentalist
This post originally ran August 5, 2009. Suppose that John R. Rice, during his Sword of the Lord days, accidentally took a couple hits of acid, and prophesied wildly about what would happen down the road if women quit wearing their hair in a bun, and started wearing slacks like crazy. Suppose he got really …
Like a Gelatinous Pudding
Introduction: In the New Testament, obedience is a good word. Also in the New Testament, works is not, unless it is modified with a word like good. We are called to good works (Titus 2:7), but ...
Like a Float for the Tournament of Roses
Introduction: One of the men in that Founders trailer said something like this. āIf we can take a clear passage that says āI do not permit a woman to teachā and turn it into something like āI ...
What Would Solomon Have Done With an Orc-Baby?
Introduction: So yesterday was eventful. There were events in the PCA, in the SBC, and in the CREC. You like how I am starting out in such measured tones, calling these things āeventsā? The old Chinese curse goes, as I am sure you remember, may you live in interesting times. And, as it transpires, we …
The Effeminacy of Silence
Introduction: I suppose the title might take some explaining, but if the post canāt explain a title like that, then what are we all doing here? Let me say at the outset that this is not a post about overt effeminacyāeffeminacy of the lisping mincing kind. If that kind of thing were a virus, then …
Financial Friction in Marriage
Dear Jon and Diane, Thanks for your questions, and I hope I might be in some position to help. When it comes to help for married couples in dealing with their āissues,ā there are generally three areas where most of the action or conflict occurs. Most marriage counseling is going to revolve around three general …