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The Balk Rule

There are exactly 37 ways to balk at the professional level, but only 36 at the high school level. Shall I name them all?

Andy, high school umpire

No, Andy, that is quite enough.

The Water’s Fine

Can you suggest a book that was helpful for you in your journey to becoming a Presbyterian? Specifically one that addresses the debate on baptism. And perhaps one on the argument for pedocommunion too? And, while we’re at it, any suggestions on a book related to church polity? Just trying to keep up!
Thank you.

Travis

Travis, there were a series of transitions back then, and it was decades ago, and I am not quite sure of the order. But you should try I Will Build My Church by Witherow, and on paedocommunion Feed My Lambs by Tim Gallant.

On Bringing Everything to a Head

As I read through “On Bringing Things to a Marital Head” a number of things were eerily familiar. I am one of three children to parents married about 40 years, we grew up in a decent Christian home, and we definitely knew our parents’ marriage was not that great. Tyler’s wife’s behavior sounds a lot like my mother’s, except my mother has no taste for the sticky-sweet sentimentality of Eat Pray Love. My parents attend a reasonably solid Baptist church, but I could see my father (who reads your blog) following your advice to break her control in some other context (for example, regularly going out to visit friends or family when she would want to stay home).
In Ephesians 5 Paul instructs wives to submit to their husbands, and husbands to love their wives. My mother (like Tyler’s wife) certainly does not submit to her husband, but neither does my father love his wife. He no longer is willing to sacrifice much, if anything, for her, and he doesn’t grieve the brokenness of their marriage. My concern is that my father would act in accordance with your advice, but absent love; that he would “disobey” not hoping for that “germ of respect” but rather a) for the exhilaration of self-autonomy after years of living in what he would describe as a stifling marriage, and perhaps even b) to spite her.
Appreciate your advice,

B

B, yes. Exactly. Better to leave things they are than to bring things to a head sinfully. And doing anything like this with the motive of spite would just make everything worse.

Spread Thin on the Cracker

You emphasize in various writings that authority naturally flows to people who take responsibility. Years ago, I took that to heart and began to act on it. It led to many good things.
I don’t think you meant it this way, but at times, I applied the teaching as “pick up all possible unclaimed responsibility you see lying around.” I maxxed out, got overwhelmed, and found myself responsible for things I had no inclination or natural talent to do—at work, around the house, etc.
What if part of taking responsibility is being responsible to see where something should be someone else’s responsibility, and acting accordingly? If the eye takes on the responsibilities of an eye, and leaves the footwork to the feet, everyone is a lot happier. Of course, sometimes something is so urgent, it needs to be done even if it’s not your “gifting,” but ideally, things should be delegated to the people best suited for them. Am I on the right track?

Douglas

Douglas, you are on the right track exactly. There are the responsibilities assigned to you in the Word, according to your station. Just assume those. There are the responsibilities that represent what you would like to be doing, stirred by godly ambition. Pick up those. There are responsibilities that belong to people you are responsible for. Motivate them to assume their role. And last are the responsibilities that are none of your business.

Interesting Idea

Our family has been listening through your Surveying the Text sermons and I have been using the accompanying blog posts to make some notes in my Bible. We have been finding both valuable. It has occurred to me on a few occasions in this process that I would love to have all your outlines and brief notes in book form, especially laying out the chiasms. Anyway I am not sure if such a project has occurred to any of you, but I figured I wouldn’t hurt to suggest it.
Cheers,

Carla

Carla, thanks for the suggestion.

Trash Talk and the Christian

Not related to a recent post, but related to the serrated edge concept. Is there a place for “talking s***” or “trash talk” or any such thing for a Christian? A favorite quarterback of mine talks about how he leads his team by trash talking at the defense, riling them up, and getting them to make mistakes. (His off the field life is a Christian who by all accounts if a faithful husband, father, so forth).
It made me wonder if that’s something a Christian could do outside of war. Is football too small potatoes? When do the potatoes get big enough?

Thomas

Thomas, I have trouble thinking that would be appropriate if it were entirely serious. I think that trash talk is part of the game if it is part of the game, if you know what I mean. My favorite example was a couple of football players, pre-game, saying that they were going to utterly defeat the other team, and then they were going to run up into the stands “and slap their mamas.”

Charismatic Interaction

A reply to your blurb quote: “I am not bound to accept a prophetic utterance from a charismatic friend the same way I am bound to believe the book of Romans.”
Concise and to the Point, p. 45
No reliable charismatic/pentecostal speaker of the supernatural word gifts makes such a claim as you are denying—which must be a straw man, except that there are fools among us. To my point, the first century had supernatural prophets, such as called for a collection because of the coming famine, or that Paul would be bound with a belt like the one he held.
We charismatic prophetic speakers (the ones I know anyway) strongly hold to Paul’s caution, King James Version
19 Quench not the Spirit. 20 Despise not prophesyings. 21 Prove all things; hold fast that which is good.
The most thorough, yet short, study of how we are to use the supernatural word gifts that I know of is the essay by the late Derek Prince, How to Judge Prophecy, here:
Thank you for your work! I often rely on your wisdom and experience.

Bruce

Bruce, not a straw man because I know that responsible charismatics do not equate the exercise of their gifts with Scripture. What I cannot figure out, for the life of me I cannot figure out, is the basis for the distinction. Without intending it as a mean jab, my conclusion is that they are far better Christians than they are logicians. The modern utterance is either the Word of God or it is not.

A Little Joke

Given the recent Saints in Genesis series on Canon+, I thought you might appreciate this joke:
After their sister was defiled by Shechem, Jacob’s sons came to him to ask if he had any ideas for how they could take vengeance. Jacob thought for a moment and then replied, “Dinah might.”

AVJ

AVJ, I am afraid that my response may not have lived up to your expectation . . .

Preparation Beforehand

I hope you are doing well. I understand that children are a blessing, and I love my children. However, I hate pregnancy. Shocking, I know. But, it’s not merely because of the weight gain, the discomfort, or the labor process. Those are annoying, but expected parts of being pregnant. The thing which I detest the most is the hormonal/emotional issues. Without going into detail, during my last pregnancy, my thoughts were very dark. I was very unwell, and began entertaining some bad ideas. Thankfully, these dark ideations disappeared after I gave birth, and my husband, friends, church, and the Lord were all with me. I’m terrified, though, of getting pregnant again. I don’t know what this is about except hormones. I’m healthy in every area: physical, mental, social, etc., but I really hate that this happens. Is there any wisdom/encouragement you could give?

ON

ON, given that another pregnancy is a possibility, my recommendation is that you ask your husband to include this item in your daily prayer time together. If you don’t have a daily prayer time together, start one, and include this request. You are right that it is hormones, but nobody ever said that we must not pray about hormones.

As Far As It is Possible With You

It takes two to reconcile, and that will often involve dealing with necessary issues before reconciliation can be realized. How would you recommend to deal with a situation in which one of the parties has refused to engage, and then ends up losing the ability to even deal with those issues due to dementia or other mental illness?

grh

grh, you cannot reconcile without reconciling, that part is true. But you can be suffused with a spirit of forgiveness, such that if the other person were to come to you prepared to reconcile, that person would be met with joy and not with bitterness. Under the sovereignty of God, there are some things that do not get addressed properly in this life. “If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men” (Romans 12:18).

Christian Pet Care

I have a question. It has come up multiple times in our home and I would appreciate some thoughtful guidance. How do we handle pets in the home (or rather the conversation around them) when the “head of the house” and the “CEO of the home” have different views and were raised differently with them?
Thank you!

Sara

Sara, what should happen is this. The husband and wife have a discussion about it, and hear each other out. This would be about things in general, and not about what happened last week. The point of the conversation is so that a decision will come to be made about the “philosophy of pet care” in the home. If a compromise is not successfully negotiated, then the head of the home will make the decision, and the wife will submit to that decision. If the difference is a point of regular tension, then one of the options on the table should be that of getting rid of your current pets and buying a goldfish. Pets are great, but not worth ongoing dissension.
Could you direct me to a past blog, podcast, book etc. where you addressed the argument for the current church structure, specifically the traditional Sunday service where a congregation gathers to hear from a preacher. I have several friends that are pushing against today’s structure saying that it isn’t represented in Scripture like we are doing it. For example, books like Pagan Christianity or Organic Church discuss. Have you addressed this idea in the past that I might be able to learn from?
Thank you,

Doug

Doug, I am not familiar with those books, and so have not interacted with them. The closest thing I have written would be this book.

Domestic Trouble

I am writing you to simply ask some questions about your video “How to Disobey an ‘Erratic’ Wife.” I wrote to you about two months ago or so, and you were kind enough to reply. I’m the Bible professor whose marriage was about to end, and I was struggling to discern whether I was actually repentant or not.
I am writing you again to ask about the applicability of that video to my situation. Does it apply in the sense that it fits what I am going through, and if it does, how do I apply the advice given my situation? You probably don’t remember the details of my letter, so a quick summary: I was actually emotionally abusive to my wife. I swung between cowardice and dominance. I have done my best to own that sin, and I can’t remember the last time I lost my temper on my wife or kids.
My church, however, continues to say that I am unrepentant even though they acknowledge that I haven’t lost my temper in years at this point. In their view, any attempt I make to lead my family in making a difficult decision for my daughter is a species of control, and control captures the essence of abuse. It doesn’t matter what tone or demeanor I use in trying to make this decision. All my wife has to say is that I was coarse with her, and the conversation is over. They have set arbitrary lines in the sand for me, and they have refrained from addressing my wife’s sin, even though there is concrete evidence that she is struggling with being erratic like a hole in our wall for example that I did not make. I want to be clear here that I don’t judge my wife. I understand why she is feeling what she is feeling, but I have been left without help in addressing it and have even continued to be accused of abuse when I try to.
This is where your video comes in. Let’s say for the sake of the question that I am accurately representing my situation. I do think I am, but this whole process with the church has melted my mind. My question is: does the scenario in your video fit mine given the fact that I was indeed abusive in our marriage, and if it does, how do I apply the advice to a church that does seem to fit the church you describe?
Just to add some complexity to this situation, I am quite sure that the church would discipline me at this point because they continue to view me as unrepentant. So, that complicates whether I could leave or not.
I would welcome any help or insight you could offer.
Sincerely,

J

J, you are right that your situation is genuinely complicated by the fact of your prior sin. On the assumption that the facts are as you relate, it seems that your only option would be to move in such a way that would not incur discipline—e.g. to take another job in another city. But for that to be a solution, your wife would have to be willing to go with you. I don’t think that the strategy outlined in my piece would work in your case. It may be that your only option is to cultivate a spirit of real repentance and wait for the divorce. Once divorced, you could find another church and seek to win your wife back.

Blood Guilt and the Jews

His blood be upon us and our children.
I have a clear memory of my Catholic grade school nun using this verse to explain to us why Jews are to be despised. In Christ, I have overcome that prejudice and see Jews, when I encounter them, as evidence of God’s presence through time. Sadly, I think many Catholics, particularly Poles, carry this opinion forward and feel justified because it seems supported by Scripture. Thank you for a clear presentation of this that I had not heard before.

Jack

Jack, you are most welcome.

The AI Pastor

There’s a pastor in Vallejo CA that has used AI to make a “digital twin” of himself so that church members can chat online and ask it questions. He just fed it all his sermons, notes, podcasts, books etc. But what cracked me up is that his last name is Lester.
“Just call me ChadGPT”

Alex

Alex, Chat Lester, eh? The thing to worry about would be when the digital twin starts doing a much better job.

Pushback on the 19th

I just read your article about overturning the 19th amendment. I want to reply briefly with two “lived experiences,” which I offer in contrast to the idealized thinking I think I’m reading.
I live in a situation of on-going disagreement over politics with my husband. We frequently cancel each other’s vote out, but that is a positive good in my opinion. I wish that we agreed and in some cases (more recently) we do. But over the long haul, my vote helps to preserve conservatism, re-balances the political scale, and empowers me to live freely as an independent citizen with the same rights that my husband enjoys.
Secondly, I unfortunately had to divorce my first husband. I referenced your article “time to walk,“ many, many times as I entered and endured the process. Because no-fault divorce was available to me, many additional devastations were avoided. The church was not supportive to me. I fled to an evangelical Episcopal Church, which, while supportive of my needs, I think had a very detrimental effect on my children. The faithful church would not have dogged me into leaving.
The failure of the church and the extremity of sin on the part of my ex-husband made no-fault divorce a blessing.
As a pastor, I’m sure you have witnessed and overseen many situational applications. I just want to add that often life is not as simple as a conservative, nationalistic Christian might hope. I do not mind considering your premises and I respect that it may be you are developing this theology around what ideally should happen in this world. But I think high-minded theology, like so many perfect things,will not be perfectly known until God grants the new heavens and new earth to sustain them.
Sincerely yours,

Diane

Diane, you are exactly right about the messiness of the world. I have no doubt that no-fault divorce can be a blessing in many situations. But please realize that it also makes it possible to walk away from a spouse who kept all his vows. The same thing on the 19th. I am glad that you and your husband are coming to agree more. But as along as you disagree, you might think about staying home on election day. Save on the gas money.

Baptismal Cooperation

Thank you so much for all the work you have done. My family and church have benefited immensely from your writing ministry. I am the associate/youth pastor at a congregational church. The head pastor is looking to step down in a few years and would like me to take over for him. Our church was historically paedobaptist and around fifty years ago someone changed that, and we have been strictly credobaptist ever since. My convictions have recently changed and I am now paedobaptist while the head pastor and the majority of the congregation is credobaptist. I am exploring the possibility of us becoming a dual practice church, especially if I were to take over for him.
What do you think of churches who are dual practice? And what are some things that I need to be aware of in making that transition as smoothly as possible? Is it even a good idea for me to take the head pastorate if my beliefs differ from the majority of the congregation on baptism?
Thanks so much for your time. May God continue to bless you and your family.

Caleb

Caleb, dual practice can work quite well if everybody has the right kind of irenic spirit. The one thing I would encourage you to do is make sure your desire to move in this direction is made clear to everybody beforehand—no surprises after the fact. We have had an operative baptismal cooperation agreement here at Christ Church for three decades now. Our confession is paedo, but we have carve-outs for baptists.

An AI Manifesto

I enjoy and am often encouraged when Pastor Wilson works through an article published online. He often breaks down the fallacies or inconsistencies, pro’s and cons, etc in the writing. Mark Zuckerberg just published an AI manifesto I thought was interesting. I find myself agreeing with some of the content in the article, but I am skeptical of my own reasoning. Would Pastor Wilson be willing to do a blog post interacting with that article?
Thanks

Chris

Chris, thanks for the suggestion.

That ‘Murican Ethnicity

I appreciated your article “The American Ethnicity.” My one disappointment is that you forgot American is properly spelled ‘Merican. And the “er” sounds a little more like “ur.” Despite that, it was good.
And your point about the government school system being set against certain elements of what it means to be ‘Merican is also very true. I think that is why Harvard (back around COVID times, if I remember correctly) said that homeschooling was racist. There is a desire to dismantle the nation of ‘Merica.
In Christ,

David

David, if it sounds like ur it should be spelled like ur!

He Has Not Sinned

Your take on this hypothetical?
A husband suspects his wife is lying to and about him, and also receiving wicked counsel. He views his wife’s text messages and emails. His suspicions are proved correct, and she is furious, saying that the invasion of privacy destroys trust and intimacy. Legal questions aside, has the husband sinned? Do wives have a right to privacy, and can that right be overridden by a husband’s authority?

Brandon

Brandon, either spouse has a right to well-founded jealousy. Neither spouse has a right to un-grounded jealousy. The fact that he found what he suspected means that he did not sin against her. Stupidly viewing your spouse’s text messages could in fact destroy trust and intimacy. But in the hypothetical you propose, what it did was reveal that trust and intimacy had already been destroyed.

Does Compassion Scale?

While arguing why Americans need to more selfishly hoard their wealth for themselves, you state, “There is a point where compassion does not scale, and pretending that it does simply creates counterfeit compassion.”
I’m not surprised that you did not cite the Bible for moral guidance in this piece, because you would not have found support. The USA in 2026 has more wealth than any other nation in world history has ever had. With just 4% of the global population we have 40% of the world’s millionaires, 30% of the world’s billionaires, and briefly had the first ever trillionaire. The amount of excess wealth Americans have sitting around is extraordinary. The same goes for every other excess resource, including land.
So what should Americans do with excess wealth? John the Baptist had an idea: “He who has two coats, let him share with him who has none; and he who has food, let him do likewise.”
But surely Jesus wouldn’t say that, right? Well . . .”Sell your possessions and give to the poor. Provide purses for yourselves that will not wear out, a treasure in heaven that will never fail, where no thief comes near and no moth destroys. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”
But maybe Jesus still thinks that sharing your wealth with your wealthy neighbors is more important than sharing it with poor strangers. Or . . . maybe not?
Then Jesus said to his host, “When you give a luncheon or dinner, do not invite your friends, your brothers or sisters, your relatives, or your rich neighbors; if you do, they may invite you back and so you will be repaid. But when you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, and you will be blessed. Although they cannot repay you, you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.”
Of course, anyone who reads your blog knows you don’t treat the commands of Jesus as particularly normative. So let’s move on to the early church. Surely they didn’t act on such extreme commands, did they?
“All the believers were together and had everything in common. They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need.”
“All the believers were one in heart and mind. No one claimed that any of their possessions was their own, but they shared everything they had. With great power the apostles continued to testify to the resurrection of the Lord Jesus. And God’s grace was so powerfully at work in them all that there were no needy persons among them. For from time to time those who owned land or houses sold them, brought the money from the sales and put it at the apostles’ feet, and it was distributed to anyone who had need.”
Okay, okay, I know you don’t see the example of Acts as normative either. But you have to trust Paul at least, right?
“I do not mean that others should be eased and you burdened, but that as a matter of equality your abundance at the present time should supply their want, so that their abundance may supply your want, that there may be equality. “
Our abundance should supply their want, so that their abundance may supply our want, so there may be equality. That is what God wants. Not hoarded wealth.
Never forget that the wealth and luxury of you and many of your followers, right at this very moment, surpasses the wealthiest people that were hearing Jesus’s words in the first century. Should that not make us tremble?
John speaks to us in no uncertain terms:
“But if any one has the world’s goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does God’s love abide in him? Little children, let us not love in word or speech but in deed and in truth.”
If you close your heart to the poor who don’t happen to be of “American ethnicity”, despite you having so many of the world’s goods, how does God’s love abide in you?
I’m not even going to start quoting James now because he didn’t even offer hope that the rich could be turned around, he simply condemned them (as Jesus himself did at several turns). Instead I’ll end on a hopeful note. As Jesus said to another man, I think he is saying to you.
“You still lack one thing. Sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”

Koinonia Love

KL, thank you for sharing all those verses, every word of which is the pure word of God. But I think you missed the point when you quoted my observation that there is a point where “compassion doesn’t scale.” Notice what John the Baptist did not say. He did not say, “He who has three coats, let him find somebody else with two coats, confiscate them both, and redistribute them who have none.” And remember what Peter actually said to Ananias. “Whiles it remained, was it not thine own? and after it was sold, was it not in thine own power?” (Acts 5:4).
As for the rest, it is absolutely true that Christians must live lives of overflowing generosity.
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Jeff
Jeff
20 days ago

Travis – I highly recommend Dr. James White’s sermon series on Baptism at Apologia Church for an excellent synopsis of the credobaptist position. It helped me think through the Biblical issues.

Thomas Bauer
Thomas Bauer
20 days ago
Reply to  Jeff

Also check out James White’s and Doug’s discussions on paedo-communion and credo-communion. I walked away from those thinking you can either be
A: reformed baptist and give the kids the bread and wine after they are baptized
or
B: paedo-communion and give the kids the bread and wine after they are baptized

What you can’t do is baptize the kids and then give them nothing. That position is internally inconsistent.

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Prophecy?
Prophecy?
20 days ago

Doug, Your answer to Bruce about charismatic prophecy was that those who practice such gifts are better Christians than they are logicians. Let me suggest that’s a flawed equivalency…unless you believe you can logically explain all the mysteries of the Christian faith (which would imply your brain is big enough to comprehend the God of all creation–and I don’t think you hold that view), don’t you think your view on prophecy should be broad enough to include elements beyond your logic filter? Human logic alone cannot be the final arbiter–even logic as fine as yours often is.. Your statement that… Read more »

Prophecy?
Prophecy?
20 days ago
Reply to  Douglas Wilson

Good enough, that makes sense. Our difference seems to be centered on the question of how one determines whether a prophecy in the New Testament church era is a word from God or not a word from God. I suggest that it does NOT happen by squelching prophetic speech entirely, as you seem to be doing and which is forbidden in I Corinthians, but by whether or not the message aligns with the Bible, firstly; and secondly by whether or not the words spoken are supported or contradicted by subsequent events, exactly as outlined in Deuteronomy 18:22. This is how… Read more »

Gordon
Gordon
20 days ago
Reply to  Prophecy?

If it agrees with the Word of God, and should be evaluated in a way similar to Doug’s preaching, in what sense is it prophecy?

Prophecy?
Prophecy?
19 days ago
Reply to  Gordon

In whatever way God intended when He gave it as one of the gifts of the Spirit, clearly listed in the Bible we ostensibly believe.

Prophecy?
Prophecy?
19 days ago
Reply to  Prophecy?

And, following your paradigm, if Doug’s preaching agrees with the Word of God, in what sense is it preaching?

Ken B
Ken B
19 days ago
Reply to  Prophecy?

The prophecy outlined in 1 Cor does not contain a predictive element, although from other places in the NT you cannot absolutely rule this out.

I see it as a word of edification or consolation for a particular group or person on a particular date. It may also reveal specific sin in the congregation. This accounts for prophecies not being recorded in the bible.

It needs testing, since we are all capable of making mistakes or adding a paragraph of our own ideas.

Unlike teaching it is something women may be gifted with, since all may prophesy!

E
E
19 days ago
Reply to  Ken B

Some women are gifted teachers…don’t put people into your pathetic box. I feel bad for your spouse…and your mum…and any women in your life.

Ken B
Ken B
19 days ago
Reply to  E

I permit no woman to teach or to have authority over men; she is to keep silent. For Adam was formed first, then Eve; and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor. This is not difficult to understand, and my wife and both daughters are happy with it. And no, I haven’t forced them into accepting this, they have thought about it for themselves. Whenever this instruction is set aside it always leads to the very thing it is designed to prevent, namely deception. I have never been in a such a church that… Read more »

E
E
18 days ago
Reply to  Ken B

11 Nevertheless neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord.

12 For as the woman is of the man, even so is the man also by the woman; but all things of God. 1 Corinthians 11:11-12

28 There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. Galatians 3:28

I can do it, too.

Ken B
Ken B
18 days ago
Reply to  E

I have already alluded to the interdepence of man and woman. Did you miss it? Galatians 3 : 28 does not say what egalitarians want it to say. As regards justification all distinctions are removed, creating unity. As far as role is concerned they are not removed. The Jews still have a part in the purposes of God that gentiles never can, the employer/employee distinction is maintained. and an employee with a Christian boss cannot claim equality with that boss, and of course no male or female does not change the bible’s distinctions of role where it defines them. It… Read more »

E
E
17 days ago
Reply to  Ken B

Ah, I see…more qualifiers to nail down your position…

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Ken B
Ken B
17 days ago
Reply to  E

What is your objection to my take on Gal 3 : 28?

john k
john k
18 days ago
Reply to  Ken B

“ It may also reveal specific sin in the congregation. This accounts for prophecies not being recorded in the bible.”

Why is that a reason for prophecy not being recorded? Most prophecy recorded in the Bible specifically DOES call to account specific sins—the Old Testament prophets, and even the ministry of the prophet greater than Moses.

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Ken B
Ken B
17 days ago
Reply to  john k

There were prophecies that pointed to Timothy that would have been for him only, and not needed to be recorded as scripture. The need to judge prophecy and our limitations of faith and knowledge indicate its imperfect nature when being exercised in a local church. There is no such limitation on scripture. It is a profound mistake to put 1 Cor 14 prophecy on a par with scripture. If it is a ‘now’ word for a specific congregation of person then it would not be needed as scrpture either. In fact I suspect it was intended to bring immediate consolation… Read more »

Nathan
Nathan
17 days ago
Reply to  Douglas Wilson

Always too two dimensional on prophecy, methinks. Not all that God has ever spoken was meant for preservation and perpetual edification of the church. “The modern utterance is either the Word of God or it is not.” is a true enough statement, logical in simplicity, but too small, incomplete in the breadth of reality and of Scripture itself, for there we see that not every utterance of God was given to be Scripture. Scripture stands as the infallible judge of every word uttered in the name of God, but is plainly far from inclusive of every Word of God. This… Read more »

Elizabeth
Elizabeth
20 days ago

The modern utterance is either the Word of God or it is not. exactly!
..added not on the website they have a pic of guy who has sa similar likeness to my son Ben..currently listening to Bruce C..Santiago Dawn

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Jake
Jake
20 days ago

ON, though the hormones are influencing your mood, you have to understand that those dark thoughts are a part of who you are. That is where the fire of sanctification has to go. Obviously, don’t look forward to it, but don’t be afraid of it.

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MN
MN
20 days ago
Reply to  Jake

Not sure exactly what you mean, but there are such a thing as intrusive thoughts that come from outside ourselves and that are not necessarily a reflection of what we believe. There is truth to the fact that hormonal problems can amplify existing sin issues in your heart (and often do), but it can do immense harm to believe that every dark thought you have in a dark time is a “part of who you are.”

Andrew Lohr
Andrew Lohr
20 days ago

Bruce/Doug: and what about in the Bible? It mentions prophets, e.g. Philip’s daughters and prophets at Corinth, whose prophecies are not in the Bible. What’s the distinction? The Bible “fails” with the selfsame failure you use as an argument against prophecies today: some prophecies are in the Bible, and why are others not? Couple reasons reasons not to add today’s prophecies to the Bible: (1) The Bible doesn’t need modern help; it is complete. (Rev and II Tim may hint at this?) (2) Many apply only to particular people and situations. If God told Jackie Pullenger which Hong Kong high… Read more »

Andrew Lohr
Andrew Lohr
19 days ago
Reply to  Andrew Lohr

Modern either is the Word of God, or not. SAME WITH ANCIENT–and we know some ancient words of God are not in the Bible, because the Bible mentions scads of them. If we don’t know know WHY not, we do know THAT not. Who would even want to add “God’s Smuggler” or “The Cross and the Switchblade” (or the messages from God they contain) to the Bible? ///
“Word of God” meaning “the Bible,” or meaning a word God gives–two different meanings; be clear which you mean. Not every word of God is in the Word of God.

E
E
19 days ago
Reply to  Andrew Lohr

What about the “words of god” men deemed to put into the Bible…and the multitude of translations, and perspectives, on the Bible?

Andrew Lohr
Andrew Lohr
19 days ago
Reply to  E

Read Gaussen’s “Theopenustia.”

E
E
17 days ago
Reply to  Andrew Lohr

All details of scripture can’t be proven as true…is the story of job real? What about Jonah being swallowed by and surviving in a fish? For three days? Seems like some sort of metaphorical component. Was it hyperbole or reality that god had armies destroy all men, women, children and beasts? Read into the Jewish tradition of story telling and get back to me…

The Commenter Formerly Known As fp
The Commenter Formerly Known As fp
16 days ago
Reply to  E

Thanks for providing us yet another example of your Bible denialism.

Koinonia
Koinonia
16 days ago

Do you follow Christ yourself, Mr. FP? It would be easy for you just to give an answer yes or no for once. I am completely unclear why you always refuse to answer, unless you feel a denial would cause others to take you even less seriously here. Do you follow Christ and wish to obey his commands or not?

E
E
20 days ago

Why don’t husbands get told to stay at home to save gas money if they disagree with their wives? It’s up to the wife to abdicate her voting rights but not the husband? Total and complete patriarchal hogwash that disenfranchises ~50% of the population. People, even husbands and wives, should be allowed to disagree…

Ken B
Ken B
20 days ago
Reply to  E

“But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a woman is her husband, and the head of Christ is God.” You cannot simply take a pair of scissors to the text and cut this statement out. In many aspects of the Christian life such as justification or receiving the Holy Spirit men and women are equal, but in others there is inequality of responsibility in the male direction, and it is important to recognise this and not let the equality passages overrule those that draw a distinction. The head of Christ… Read more »

E
E
20 days ago
Reply to  Ken B

Where in the Bible does it talk about head of household voting? Back in Bible times, women were property, so I think distinctions are absolutely necessary because that is abhorrent. You’re doing the exact same thing, cutting statements out, if you prioritize inequality verses. I do agree that 1 Corinthians 11:3 cannot simply be ignored. Scripture should be understood as a whole, not by isolating a single verse. However, neither can that verse be used to support taking away women’s civil rights, such as voting, because the Bible consistently presents women as moral agents who are accountable to God in… Read more »

Ken B
Ken B
20 days ago
Reply to  E

Haven’t got time to reply in detail, but I was recently party to a conversation between two Englishment one of whom said ‘where can I find a woman to have children with who it not crazy’. What he was bemoaning was the deleterious effect of feminism and women thinking they can have rights including dumping the duties of motherhood on their husbands or else as an ‘oppressed minority’ in socialist terms walk away.

Hence I have some sympathy with measures that might push back against this.

But I do think we need to be careful not to politicise the NT.

E
E
20 days ago
Reply to  Ken B

Sounds like that’s exactly what you’re doing…plus woman-blaming/shaming. You think it’s outlandish that women have rights and thoughts and independence….i argue Jesus saw and treated women differently.

Ken B
Ken B
19 days ago
Reply to  E

Your claim that I think it is outlandish that women have rights and thoughts and indepence is a figment of your imaginiation! It is a very cultural Marxist way of thinking. Nevertheless, men and women in the NT are interdependent, so lonely independence of either sex is not a good thing. The apostle Paul has a balance on this that modern society couldn’t begin to understand – but then it doesn’t know what a woman is because it has ceased to be able to think! Jesus did not appoint any female apostles, so I think it questionable that he made… Read more »

John
John
19 days ago
Reply to  E

I’m pretty sure he meant that both the husband and wife should stay home, because their votes cancel, and so it’s a meaningless turnout.

E
E
19 days ago
Reply to  John

Yeah, that’s not what he said. He said “you”, meaning the writer, the wife, a woman, not her husband.

Sidelines
Sidelines
18 days ago
Reply to  E

 I am glad that you and your husband are coming to agree more. But as along as you disagree, you might think about staying home on election day. Save on the gas money. It is SO obvious that he’s referring to both the husband and the wife. The first statement frames the “you” as “you and your husband”. But as long as you (and your husband) disagree, you (and your husband) might think about staying home on election day. Save on the gas money. Not to mention that he’s talked about this multiple times on multiple published platforms, both in… Read more »

E
E
18 days ago
Reply to  Sidelines

But the husband has the final say, so I completely disagree with you. That’s what Doug says. That’s what he believes. I agree he’s talking about both, but he’s telling the wife to stay home so the husbands vote won’t be cancelled out. Nice linguistic gymnastics! Must be tiring…

John
John
18 days ago
Reply to  E

Oh, he’s very much in favor of conservative women voting conservative, even if their husbands are leftists. I’m curious if you read anything more than Examining Moscow stuff and the comments thread here, and maybe a few Ask Doug letters along with it (the main forum where he doesn’t elaborate on his views, because he’s responding to so many people)?

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Sidelines
Sidelines
17 days ago
Reply to  E

Yeah, that’s not what he said. He said “you”, meaning the writer, the wife, a woman, not her husband.

You don’t seem to agree with yourself then… cause you make the exact opposite argument. I’m not the one doing backbends.

E
E
17 days ago
Reply to  Sidelines

I maintain the you he refers to is the woman, not the plural form. No backbending here:)

John
John
18 days ago
Reply to  E

Well, obviously if both stay home, the wife does too. Also, “you” can be plural, unless you’re a diehard stickler for the southern “y’all.” I know for an absolute fact he’s not against women voting now in our current cultural climate—and all the women in the CREC vote regularly. “Save the gas money” would be a meaningless statement if the husband still went, because the husband and wife could go together in the same car…? I get that you’re dead set on him saying what you want him to say, but a little charity might be in order once in… Read more »

Koinonia
Koinonia
18 days ago
Reply to  John

I’m a bit confused by both sides of this argument. Pastor Wilson has been very open that he wants the 19th Amendment repealed. He says that he thinks conservative women should still vote now for purely pragmatic reasons, because liberal women exist and he wants to cancel our their votes, but ideologically he doesn’t think that women should have the right to vote.

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John
John
18 days ago
Reply to  Koinonia

Thanks for the response. That’s mostly right, except that he’s not against women voting per se, but against those who are not heads of households voting—so, for instance, unmarried widows could vote even in a more ideal society. I was just pointing out that, in the present situation, he was not advising the woman to stay home and the husband vote. He was just saying that, if they’re gonna cancel each other out, both should stay home. (We’re talking about the phrase “you might think about staying home” in his letter to Diane.)

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E
E
17 days ago
Reply to  John

No, he’s against women voting. That’s what he said, and I take words at face value.

Koinonia
Koinonia
17 days ago
Reply to  John

That position seems nonsensical. If unmarried singles could vote, but not married women, then a couple getting married would cut their voting power in half. So you’d be incentivizing people not to marry, and penalizing those who do. You’d also be penalizing college students who chose to stay at home for college rather than move away, and adult children who chose to take in and support their elderly parents. Is there a real benefit to this somewhere, or is it just one of those trollbait sort of suggestions that would be neither useful nor practical but lets Doug make some… Read more »

John
John
9 days ago
Reply to  Koinonia

I don’t expect you to see this because the discussion was a week ago, but assuming your question was asked in good faith (unlike those of some commenters on this thread), the basic answer would be along these lines (again, it can be developed/defended in much more detail): The household voting framework takes for granted a society that a) broadly agrees politically, so that one’s vote becomes much less important because the parties are not nearly so polarized, and b) a society where everyone (men and women) both accept a household vote from a Christian framework, and c) that places… Read more »

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E
E
17 days ago
Reply to  John

Maybe you should read the Bible with the same charity you request…it’s what Christ would advocate.

John
John
9 days ago
Reply to  E

Wait, so the (alleged) fact that I don’t read the Bible charitably (which obviously just begs the question) entails that you don’t need to read pastor Doug charitably? Your liberal humor simply breaks all the conventional bounds of wit!

E
E
20 days ago

So no-fault divorce is bad, but you’re ok recommending divorce and then trying to win the ex-wife back? Which is it? Divorce ok or divorce bad? Or does it just depend on what the husband says/does? Does anyone see ex-spouses “winning” each other back? Seems like justification or rationalization for me to get out of marriages… “J, you are right that your situation is genuinely complicated by the fact of your prior sin. On the assumption that the facts are as you relate, it seems that your only option would be to move in such a way that would not… Read more »

Koinonia
Koinonia
20 days ago

Your response to my letter seems off-base, as I did not say one word about the government giving anyone’s private possessions to anyone else. I was responding to your suggestion that the USA didn’t have enough resources to support more people, and you using that as an excuse to keep people out of the country, when we are in fact we have more excess wealth than any nation in the history of Earth. When I was younger, it was pointed out to me than people with less money are typically more willing to allow a homeless person into their home… Read more »

Chris8647
Chris8647
20 days ago
Reply to  Koinonia

The thing that makes Doug sick is compassion or resources being shared with anybody outside of his cult. This is why he wants to change the definition of what an American is and who benefits to relieve himself the mental anguish of a Muslim getting anything without his consent. Meanwhile, zero smoke for Trump building a ballroom with American taxpayer funds and the proposed $1.776 billion dollar slush fund. Which if somehow that gets pulled off, I would bet my bottom dollar Doug requests funds from with equally zero compunction. Never met a dollar he didn’t like.

E
E
20 days ago
Reply to  Chris8647

Not to mention tax exemption for churches, etc…isn’t that considered a governmental handout? Doug only has so much space under his umbrella…

Ken B
Ken B
20 days ago
Reply to  E

Tax exemptions are never a govt handout; rather they are the govt allowing churches (or individuals) to keep more of their own money.

We are not wards of the state who decides graciously how much of the money we earn we are allowed to keep, as though govt has first call on it.

E
E
20 days ago
Reply to  Ken B

Then why do billionaires get to keep so much of theirs? Being exempted is a form of governmental handout…grace…or an exception…made by the government.

Ken B
Ken B
19 days ago
Reply to  E

Billionaires may not deservce or have earned the wealth that they have, but it is still not the job of government to appropriate their wealth to fund tax and spend programmes.

These injustices will one day be put right. Come now, you rich, weep and howl for the miseries that are coming upon you. You have laid up treasure for the last days.

Buster Keaton
Buster Keaton
14 days ago
Reply to  Ken B

Tax exemptions are never a govt handout; rather they are the govt allowing churches (or individuals) to keep more of their own money. ^ that is one perspective. Not a Christian one, obviously, but a very common worldly perspective often found in prosperity churches that do not preach the gospel, in which we find the opposite: “he said to them: “Whose image and inscription is this?” They said to him: “Caesar’s.” Jesus then said: “Pay back Caesar’s things to Caesar, but God’s things to God.” It’s not your money and never was. That’s what Jesus says, and that is why he… Read more »

Ken B
Ken B
14 days ago
Reply to  Buster Keaton

But a man named Anani’as with his wife Sapphi’ra sold a piece of property, and with his wife’s knowledge he kept back some of the proceeds, and brought only a part and laid it at the apostles’ feet. But Peter said, “Anani’as, why has Satan filled your heart to lie to the Holy Spirit and to keep back part of the proceeds of the land? While it remained unsold, did it not remain your own? And after it was sold, was it not at your disposal?  It seems to me Peter here confirms the voluntary nature of giving, and that… Read more »

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John Middleton
John Middleton
20 days ago
Reply to  Koinonia

Koinonia, I’m not sure I believe all of your second paragraph, but I am open to possible persuasion if you can cite some research and facts. I don’t discount what was pointed out to you, but I’m left to wonder who pointed it out, and based on what established facts. Likewise, I don’t automatically discount what you have “noticed” as subjective bias, but I budget for that possibility. Of course someone with no wealth at all to protect doesn’t stress over protecting wealth – count blessings where you find them I guess – but people at all income levels are… Read more »

Koinonia
Koinonia
20 days ago
Reply to  John Middleton

My words were most directly rooted in my experiences living among the poor, being frequently exposed to the rich, and in the shared report of many of my fellow Christians who see the exact same things. But I could indeed add some statistics, though I wouldn’t say love/acceptance/etc. can be perfectly broken down into objective numbers. But just to interrupt that, in my experience walking through many communities in several nations, I have often been invited into homes by strangers when walking through poor communities. I have never been invited into homes by strangers when walking through rich communities that… Read more »

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John Middleton
John Middleton
20 days ago
Reply to  Koinonia

Of course the big dollar amounts given away by the super rich is fairly well publicized. However, apart from that I wonder, how is it known how much people give to charity, and to who or what they give? I wouldn’t doubt poor people give a relatively higher percentage of their income, when they give anything. Anything is big chunk of what you have when you don’t have much.

Koinonia
Koinonia
19 days ago
Reply to  John Middleton

It seems to me to be the opposite – it should be EASY for the rich to give a relatively higher percentage of their income, when the poor are forced to spend so much of their income on basic needs. Even 10% giving as an average would outpace the poor and 10% is a small portion of their expendable wealth. But they don’t even give that 10%, because when you become wealthy you serve money, as Jesus pointed out.

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John Middleton
John Middleton
19 days ago
Reply to  Koinonia

Easier to give a higher percentage and still be well off, yes, if that’s what you mean. I agree most people can afford to give more than they do before their own wellbeing, or even their general comfort and convenience, is in jeopardy. What I meant was, when one has very little and they reach into their pocket as the plate is passed – figuratively or literally – there is a greater likelihood that they will have ended up giving a relatively higher percentage of what they had. Not that true charity is just a matter of percentages. When we’re… Read more »

Koinonia
Koinonia
19 days ago
Reply to  John Middleton

To whom more is given, more is required. I agree that it is more difficult for a rich person to fulfill their obligations for giving up wealth than it is for a poor person to. That does not mean they will be judged by God on an easier scale though, to the contrary we are told that they rarely if ever attain the Kingdom of Heaven. Another reason why it’s better to divest wealth than to hoard it. In my mind, “poor” means that you struggle to attain the resources necessary to meet your family’s food, shelter, medical, educational, or… Read more »

Reepicheep
Reepicheep
20 days ago
Reply to  Koinonia

“…as I did not say one word about the government giving anyone’s private possessions to anyone else. I was responding to your suggestion that the USA didn’t have enough resources to support more people,” If it’s not about government redistribution, then it’s also not about how many resources the USA has as a whole. The New Testament is about the individual. Nowhere do we see Christ or the apostles organizing communities to introduce political change to the Roman Empire (the inspiration for the Fascists, no less). We do, however, see Judas Iscariot using giving to the poor as an excuse… Read more »

Koinonia
Koinonia
20 days ago
Reply to  Reepicheep

But Reepicheep, my comment was in response to Pastor Wilson advocating for Christians to agitate for political change by opposing immigration. I was disagreeing with the rationale he gave for doing so. If you don’t like Christians being involved in political change, you need to take it up with him first. My disagreement with his rationale stands no matter whether you think Christian involvement in government is valid or not. Either way, the suggestion that the USA is running out of resources and American Christians need to band together to hoard them for themselves is a poor one. “The New… Read more »

E
E
20 days ago
Reply to  Reepicheep

Then why do it now? Seems like a major push with evangelicals these days…

“The New Testament is about the individual. Nowhere do we see Christ or the apostles organizing communities to introduce political change to the Roman Empire (the inspiration for the Fascists, no less).“

john k
john k
20 days ago
Reply to  Reepicheep

What would happen if all shareholders of American based companies sold their shares and gave the proceeds to non profit organizations serving the poor?

James
James
20 days ago
Reply to  john k

Then poor (including those who could work but wouldn’t) people would be richer than everyone else, but not for long. If the poor gave their money away too, or just let it sit, when they had more than they needed, it would be a dead end, and if they just bought a lot of things, laziness (in some cases) would be rewarded. Most likely , if everyone simply gave all their surplus money to the poor, especially those who couldn’t handle money well or didn’t want to, and chose to live an ultra-minimalist life, the economy would implode, and most… Read more »

Koinonia
Koinonia
20 days ago
Reply to  James

So the form of your argument, which has been used by many to reject Jesus’s words for generations now, is: “If everyone acted like Jesus suggests, it would crash our modern economy, which relies on rampant consumerism to survive. Of course, such large-scale obedience will never happen, but just the thought experiment is enough to argue that those minority of us who are trying to pursue obedience must not act that way. If it doesn’t align with modern consumer capitalism, it must not be Scriptural ” “For Koinonia to suggest following the plain words of Scripture, he must be mentally… Read more »

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Koinonia
Koinonia
20 days ago
Reply to  john k

“What would happen if all the most secularized members of society suddenly repented and began dramatic obedience?” This is an odd thought experiment because it bears no relation to anything that has or will happen in our society. It’s like asking what would happen if everyone in Moscow spontaneously converted to CREC and started attending Doug’s church. Parking would be an unsolvable nightmare, the bathrooms would be untenable, could be fights over pews between the rough and newly converted, many Moscow businesses would collapse and religious institutions would go under with unknown consequences. It would lead to logistical issues galore.… Read more »

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Andrew Lohr
Andrew Lohr
19 days ago
Reply to  Koinonia

First Pentecostal Church went from 120 members to 3120 in one day (I doubt TEs did all the baptisms), a 25-fold increase. When a house-type church adds a household, it adds a church meeting place at the same time. You and the church group you’re in sounds good. How fast would you want to add foreigners? Project that to the whole US, if you think we can handle the percentage you can at the speed you can. (If y’all are 100 members and think you can add 20 Somalis, and make sure they actually have children in their day cares,… Read more »

Koinonia
Koinonia
19 days ago
Reply to  Andrew Lohr

“You and the church group you’re in sounds good. How fast would you want to add foreigners? Project that to the whole US, if you think we can handle the percentage you can at the speed you can.” At times the services have had 1/3 to 1/2 migrants. That has never been the slightest problem. So we’re good up through 160 to 320 million migrants in the USA by your projection? I think your “project that” suggestion backfired on you, which suggests you have not seen much capacity for love in your own church. The gish gallop of excuses that… Read more »

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Koinonia
Koinonia
19 days ago
Reply to  john k

No one ever asks, “What would happen if all abortions stopped tomorrow?*. Obviously there would be a million or more children now being born into difficult, unwanted circumstances, deeper strains on hospitals and schools, many more children growing up without a father around, far more welfare payments…there are even those studies suggesting the crime rate would go way up. No one says this because we all feel strongly that obeying God and ending the abortion of babies is objectively good, even if we can’t predict all the consequences. Once you see someone resort to secular hypotheticals instead of making a… Read more »

James
James
19 days ago
Reply to  Koinonia

Let me give a real life example of failed generosity/hospitality Several years ago, my parents, who are none too wealthy themselves and are relatively simple livers (there were times when we never ate out) took in a black woman who I will call Malia (name changed to protect privacy), a single Mom with five children who had been evicted. Malia would not allow her teenage son to seek a job, and lived off the state, and her younger children were rather wasteful with food, I think it was partly their mother’s fault. Mom and Dad had agreed to host Malia… Read more »

The Commenter Formerly Known As fp
The Commenter Formerly Known As fp
19 days ago
Reply to  James

Jesus also said, “If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body go into hell.” – Matt. 5:29-30

These are the plain words of Scripture. So then, we should be able to recognize Koinonia by the stump and the eye patch.

Koinonia
Koinonia
19 days ago

Purposely and obviously misinterpreting Scripture is not an argument against correctly interpreting Scripture. I have invited you, over and over again, to discuss actual interpretation of the passages in question. You refuse to discuss the actual passages and your own interpretation, every time, and instead retreat to distractions and personal attack.

Let’s start with Luke 12:33. How would you interpret its meaning, and how do you practice it?

The Commenter Formerly Known As fp
The Commenter Formerly Known As fp
19 days ago
Reply to  Koinonia

James 1:19-20 is a great Scripture. You should try it.

Ken B
Ken B
19 days ago

fp – sadly the phrase the anger of man does not work the righteousness of God has almost become my life’s verse!

Sometimes you feel like exploding with anger at what is going on in the world, and even worse the church, but it doesn’t do any good whatsoeever.

Cherrera
Cherrera
15 days ago

We all know who “Koinonia” is. He was last seen here pushing jabs and Biden’s “Winter of Death” propaganda that never panned out. His Branch Covidian nonsense aged like stale milk in the Texas heat.

I believe he was banned but came back here like a dog to his vomit. His entire schtick is baptizing almost every leftist take with a Bible verse and citing mainstream, God-hating sources as his authority.

E
E
19 days ago

Are you a biblical “realist”/“literalist”?

The Commenter Formerly Known As fp
The Commenter Formerly Known As fp
19 days ago
Reply to  E

This from the Bible denier. Priceless.

E
E
19 days ago

I never said I deny the Bible…just those who misrepresented it:) you can’t pick and choose when to be literal or figurative…what is it, descriptive or prescriptive? Blah blah blah…

The Commenter Formerly Known As fp
The Commenter Formerly Known As fp
19 days ago
Reply to  E

You don’t have to say it. You demonstrate it repeatedly.

Just because you fell off the turnip truck yesterday doesn’t mean everyone else has :)

E
E
19 days ago
Reply to  James

Nice anecdote…

Koinonia
Koinonia
19 days ago
Reply to  E

The moral lesson was goofy. So his parents were nice once for one day, it didn’t immediately solve obviously deep problems, so this we shouldn’t obey Jesus? It’s like saying, “Once I went to church and my life didn’t immediately get better, so I decided to stop going to church.” What does he think a one-day action shows about any Biblical principal?

And shoehorning race into it, twice in fact, was bizarre. I wonder why he thought that was relevant.

James
James
19 days ago
Reply to  Koinonia

I will defend myself no more, because it doesn’t seem that you want to listen, and I said it would be my last. But I will defend my parents. I already said that they were willing to let Malia stay for several days, and I will say that they hoped she would. But she just wanted a hotel room, so she splurged when she got her check, and I don’t remember hearing from her again. My Dad really does care about helping the poor, and I think my Mom does too. But they are not socialists, and they believe in… Read more »

Koinonia
Koinonia
19 days ago
Reply to  James

How did this become about your parents? I did not criticize your parents, I criticized your Biblical interpretation being based on that single one-day action not fixing the world.

You keep taking the Bible personally rather than looking at Scripture on its own terms. The Bible’s job is not to validate your life. The Bible’s job is to shape your life. You want to judge people, to determine whether one is better than another. I want to find the best actions.

E
E
19 days ago
Reply to  James

They REALLY seemed to go out of their way…and then the grudge coming from a poor person wanting some comforts lasts into the next generation…quite twisted, really. Here’s an anecdote:

I once passed an unhoused person on the street asking for change, and I gave him a $5 bill. I walked on my way. I couldn’t care less what he used it for…somewhere, if I remember correctly, it was said that god loves a cheerful giver. Maybe you should look in the mirror and see if you have a smile or a scowl:)

James
James
19 days ago
Reply to  E

To clear things up, this is not something my parents told me about, but something that happened while I was home–and I still am home, working to save for a time when, Lord willing, I will have a wife and children to support, and paying some to my parents, who are still simple liberals and still, espe.cially in my Dad’s case, go out of the way to help the poor and strangers. I was not trying to say they should not have taken her in, but that Malia’s difficult life was partly of her own making, and that there is… Read more »

James
James
19 days ago
Reply to  James

I meant simple livers, not liberals. My parents are, generally speaking, socially and fiscally conservative.

E
E
17 days ago
Reply to  James

As opposed to simple kidneys?

Koinonia
Koinonia
19 days ago
Reply to  James

As I pointed out before, you seem more interested in judging and ranking people than in exploring obedience to Christ. That, combined with your fixation on race, make me wonder whether Jesus is who you’re looking for or whether you want something else. If they are anything like you depict, then it would seem that Wulf and Malia both needed Jesus, and both needed a community to better show Jesus to them. Whatever you are trying to argue for in this comment section, it doesn’t seem to be getting you closer to God, just getting you angry at people that… Read more »

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Andrew Lohr
Andrew Lohr
19 days ago
Reply to  Koinonia

We prodigals love you, big brother.

Andrew Lohr
Andrew Lohr
19 days ago
Reply to  Koinonia

Pro-lifers should say, and should’ve been saying, that ill-advised sex, sex not ready for a common result of sex, is sin in itself (“Flee [from] fornication”), not just the downstream-from-it murder of babies. Someone brought up Peter saying Ananias and Sapphira could’ve held onto their wealth. Jesus tempered his condemnation of the rich by saying God, with whom all things are possible, can get them into the Kingdom of Heaven; and by giving wealth to Abraham, David, Job, and the NT people in whose houses churches met (how many houses have an upper room that can hold 120, or even… Read more »

Koinonia
Koinonia
19 days ago
Reply to  Andrew Lohr

 Jesus tempered his condemnation of the rich by saying God, with whom all things are possible, can get them into the Kingdom of Heaven; The reasonable interpretation, unless Jesus was purposely misleading everyone in all the interaction up until that moment as well as directly after, was that God can help them to give up their wealth. Not one word suggested “they should keep it”, he instead told him to give it up, lamented that he did not give it up, stated that all things were possible with God, and then praised those who had indeed given everything up. The… Read more »

Koinonia
Koinonia
19 days ago
Reply to  Andrew Lohr

And just to be clear, I do think it possible that God is willing to accept even the rich into the Kingdom of Heaven, despite what Jesus says there as well as all the other times they’re condemned in the NT. Just as he accepts the condemned brigand. But it is obvious from that text and many others that, “Keep your wealth and maybe by chance you can get in anyway” is not the goal. Giving up that wealth because you’ve seen something of the Kingdom of Heaven is the direct goal he gives.

Jake
Jake
20 days ago

Speaking of No Fault Divorce: A lot of people blame Reagan, but California was doing this about a hundred years ago. A person could move to Reno, live there for six weeks and then be a Nevada resident. They could then apply for a no fault divorce. Nevada taxes rent for the first six weeks of an apartment just for that reason.

E
E
19 days ago
Reply to  Jake

Wait…California or Nevada? What about Florida while we’re at it…

Jake
Jake
19 days ago
Reply to  E

Typo definitely Nevada

Jill Smith
Jill Smith
19 days ago
Reply to  Jake

Movie stars were famous for it. Gossip columnists called it getting Reno’ed. Nevada is still a favorite wedding destination because you can get your license and your ceremony the same day. For under $300 you can be married by a certified Elvis impersonator; limo ride from the airport extra,

Jake
Jake
17 days ago
Reply to  Jill Smith

I like
Charlie Chan movies. In Charlie Chan in Reno, Charlie mentions that he must go home re reassure his wife that he is NOT going to Reno for a divorce. It is on you Tube.

Chris8647
Chris8647
17 days ago

Doug, who has done more for the Navy? Trump or Doris Miller?

Jesus Christ
17 days ago

Give unto caesar, make Rome Christian. This is Christ’s message…..I come to make a Christian government. PERIOD.

Ken B
Ken B
16 days ago
Reply to  Jesus Christ

“You shall not take the name of the LORD your God in vain; for the LORD will not hold him guiltless who takes his name in vain.