One of the great errors of our day regarding marriage is the idea that the sentiments of this wonderful day are somehow lasting in themselves. But they are not. This is not to disparage the sentiments associated with a time of celebration like this, but rather to put them in their proper place. When a …
Tyler and Stephanie
Whenever we celebrate a wedding, it is right and proper for us to reflect on the first wedding. Jesus teaches us that we are supposed to understand what we are doing with regard to marriage by reflecting on how it was “from the beginning.” And so this is what we do. Given the nature of …
Gabe and Charlene
In order for a man and a woman to live together successfully, the Lord has to do a lot of prep work first. The Scripture tells us that unless the Lord builds the house, the one who builds it labors in vain (Ps. 127:1). And when the Lord builds a house, as He is building …
Zach and Holly
We are all privileged to participate in this Christian wedding, but we must take care that we understand this rightly. It is not a Christian wedding simply because it is occurring in a church, and it is not a Christian wedding simply because we are using Christian formulae in the ceremony itself, and it is …
Jonathan and Allie
Grace and peace to you, from God the Father and His Son Jesus Christ. And having extended and received that scriptural blessing, let us stop to consider what it might mean for us, and how it applies to a joyous event like this wedding. The apostle Paul is thoroughly Trinitarian in his expressions, as we …
Brian and Christie
Weddings are at the heart of the creation mandate, and weddings are a glorious exhibition of the new creation mandate as well. They form a parallelism—divine goodness for the earth, as well as a divine proclamation of heavenly realities. When God first created the world, everything was good. When our rebellion against Him plunged us …
Joe and Rachel
Weddings are glorious, and they both remind us and teach us. We are reminded of our own vows, and basic things we have known for a long time, but which need to brought back to us in a fresh way. At the same time, we also learn that marriage is a subject that startles and …
Andrew and Denali
What is it that makes a Christian wedding? It would be easy to answer such a question in a superficial way by simply appealing to forms and customs—as when a Christian minister presides or prays over the ceremony, or if it were to occur in a Christian church. Or perhaps we could say that it …
Jonathan and Annike
In the name of the God of all grace, welcome. Jonathan, grace and peace to you. Annike, may grace and peace be multiplied to you, in such a way as enables you to return it to Jonathan again, pressed down, shaken, and running over. As Christians, we are engaged by the Holy Spirit in the …
Steven and Katie
In the name of the God of all grace, welcome. Steven, may grace and peace be multiplied to you. Katie, may grace and peace be multiplied to you. This is a Christian wedding and, as such, it is therefore a testimony to the grace of God. But what is grace, exactly? For too many people, …