Or Soteriology Perhaps?

“The courting relationship should be handled carefully by Christians because it is a volatile sexual relationship. The fact that it is unconsummated does not keep it from being sexual. When a young many approaches a girl’s father, there is no sense anyone pretending that something platonic or spiritual is happening. ‘Mr. Smith, may I have your permission to speak with your daughter about missions?'” (Her Hand in Marriage, p. 53).